Hehehe.. got nothing to do.. came across this quiz and its kinda speak the way i see love.. haha..
♥ Personality of the person you would be attracted to in real life situation...
In a real life situation you would be attracted to a person who is cold as ice on the outside, but warm inside. -- Hmmm...
♥ The behavior that would cause you to break up with your partner...
Your partner is too emotional and moody and you don't know how to please him/her. -- Oooo...
♥ Kind of relationship that you would like to build with your partner...
You want a relationship that makes you feel warm and always in love. -- Of course~!
♥ Your views about marriage...
You are afraid of marriage, you think it would take away your freedom. -- BINGO~!
♥ Your views about love at this present moment...
You always thirst for love, you can do anything for it, but you won't fall for it easily. -- Maybe?
2008年6月29日日曜日
2008年6月25日水曜日
Women. Smart yet stupid?
Read one of Lili's entry where she quoted....
"I don't understand why people can promise something or say something if they never mean to do it? Why can't you just not give someone else false hopes and shut up? At least that will make them feel better?"..............
"Men often lie and even though women know that they are lying, they still choose to give them the benefit of doubt. Women are SMART yet STUPID in this case. Smart because they know the guy is lying. Stupid because they still choose to believe the guy who's lying."...........
In my opinion.....
Sometimes, promising somebody might be an assurance to him/her. May the assurance be now or forever, its still an assurance and this might make them feel good at least in that moment.
People always think of what will happen now than what will happen in the future. They never think of the consequences. Just like giving promises. Men often lie because women think a lot. Because of this, their lies might be to prevent another heartbreaking and hurting quarrel?
Women are sensitive creatures. Women likewise, choosing to believe in men's lies might be to prevent them from getting depressed over the issue?
There's a saying "the more you quarrel, the more loving's the couple".
It might be true. But it might be incorrect too.
Many relationship ended because of constant quarrels/disagreements. And to put it in nicer word will be 'incompatible'.
Women might be smart to know that men are lying and they might be stupid on the surface to believe in their lies. Maybe.... that is because of this stupidity that help sustain the relationship? Hahaha...
Compromise is the word for building up a peaceful relationship. That is what i believe.
"I don't understand why people can promise something or say something if they never mean to do it? Why can't you just not give someone else false hopes and shut up? At least that will make them feel better?"..............
"Men often lie and even though women know that they are lying, they still choose to give them the benefit of doubt. Women are SMART yet STUPID in this case. Smart because they know the guy is lying. Stupid because they still choose to believe the guy who's lying."...........
In my opinion.....
Sometimes, promising somebody might be an assurance to him/her. May the assurance be now or forever, its still an assurance and this might make them feel good at least in that moment.
People always think of what will happen now than what will happen in the future. They never think of the consequences. Just like giving promises. Men often lie because women think a lot. Because of this, their lies might be to prevent another heartbreaking and hurting quarrel?
Women are sensitive creatures. Women likewise, choosing to believe in men's lies might be to prevent them from getting depressed over the issue?
There's a saying "the more you quarrel, the more loving's the couple".
It might be true. But it might be incorrect too.
Many relationship ended because of constant quarrels/disagreements. And to put it in nicer word will be 'incompatible'.
Women might be smart to know that men are lying and they might be stupid on the surface to believe in their lies. Maybe.... that is because of this stupidity that help sustain the relationship? Hahaha...
Compromise is the word for building up a peaceful relationship. That is what i believe.
Nice Gathering
Havent been meeting up with the guys (Jun Wei, Tong, Ben & JY) since i think Janice's 21st Birthday? Haha! Whoa.. that's like almost 2yrs? Lol..
Meeting up with them really make me feel that we've grown up. From the playful ignorance days to now where everybody is settling down to their future career path. Jun wei's seriously matured to one who's finally concern with his academic (flying over to AU for studies) and Tong's seriously in to his future career as a financial adviser, reading up on financial issues even before his semesters start in NUS. Ben? Haha.. indescribable comments.
Seeing everyone with a path in mind, i suddenly feel kinda depressed. Not yet a stable job after graduation made me feel kinda useless and hopeless? Haha.. Why do i see everybody getting a job so quickly after grad and im still stucked here aimlessly? Im very unsure of my career path. Aiming for a job i like or aiming for a job that's relevant to my degree?
Initially i was very sure that i will go for a job that interests me. But now, after what my father and friends have said, "working for one that's relevant to my degree, whether you like it or not, gaining experience while you are still fresh is the priority. Years down the road, you can still go for your dream job", i begin to have second thoughts.
Some even say "follow your heart"... How am i going to follow my heart when im not even sure of my heart? Hahaha.....
Meeting up with them really make me feel that we've grown up. From the playful ignorance days to now where everybody is settling down to their future career path. Jun wei's seriously matured to one who's finally concern with his academic (flying over to AU for studies) and Tong's seriously in to his future career as a financial adviser, reading up on financial issues even before his semesters start in NUS. Ben? Haha.. indescribable comments.
Seeing everyone with a path in mind, i suddenly feel kinda depressed. Not yet a stable job after graduation made me feel kinda useless and hopeless? Haha.. Why do i see everybody getting a job so quickly after grad and im still stucked here aimlessly? Im very unsure of my career path. Aiming for a job i like or aiming for a job that's relevant to my degree?
Initially i was very sure that i will go for a job that interests me. But now, after what my father and friends have said, "working for one that's relevant to my degree, whether you like it or not, gaining experience while you are still fresh is the priority. Years down the road, you can still go for your dream job", i begin to have second thoughts.
Some even say "follow your heart"... How am i going to follow my heart when im not even sure of my heart? Hahaha.....
2008年6月22日日曜日
Guilty Guilty
Ben Dan is finally SICK!I didnt mean to disturb you so early..
I didnt knew you were sick...
Rest well...
Stay Alive.
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