我們執著什麼，
往往就會被什麼所騙；
我們執著誰，
...
常常就會被誰所傷害。
所以我們要學會放下，
凡事看淡一些，
不牽掛，
不計較，
是是非非無所謂。
無論失去什麼，
都不要失去好心情。
把握住自己的心，
讓心境清淨，
潔白，
安靜。
放下不等於放棄，執著不等於堅持。
2011年11月30日水曜日
2011年11月26日土曜日
Happy Birthday aaluoos!
It's aaluoos's 26th Birthday and he's flying off to Egypt, alone on a mysterious exploration trip.
Worries, worries and more worries...
He must be crazy doing this alone when it's still chaotic there and I must be crazy spending his birthday with him at Changi Airport Terminal 2 at 12:10am.
We celebrated the birthday skyline-ing from T2 to T3 and exploring the whole of T3 to realise that it's actually a HUGE terminal. That's not the end. After having 2 heavy dinners for him and 1 heavy dinner myself with dear Toby He, I was forced to gulp down 6 pieces of nuggets while he happily indulge in his 3rd dinner, McChicken meal~ I'm gonna make him responsible for the additional weight and fats I put on in future!
In time to pass him the simple Birthday card I spent one night designing and drafting. Wanted to pass it to him outside the immigration point but the stubborn him insisted seeing me up the taxi before he leave in "peace". That's so the days when we "put down the phone lah, no.. after you. No! After you!". =D
Worries, worries and more worries...
He must be crazy doing this alone when it's still chaotic there and I must be crazy spending his birthday with him at Changi Airport Terminal 2 at 12:10am.
We celebrated the birthday skyline-ing from T2 to T3 and exploring the whole of T3 to realise that it's actually a HUGE terminal. That's not the end. After having 2 heavy dinners for him and 1 heavy dinner myself with dear Toby He, I was forced to gulp down 6 pieces of nuggets while he happily indulge in his 3rd dinner, McChicken meal~ I'm gonna make him responsible for the additional weight and fats I put on in future!
In time to pass him the simple Birthday card I spent one night designing and drafting. Wanted to pass it to him outside the immigration point but the stubborn him insisted seeing me up the taxi before he leave in "peace". That's so the days when we "put down the phone lah, no.. after you. No! After you!". =D
Starting to miss his nonsenses, I shall enjoy my bridesmaid-ing period in December and wait for his return! I'm sure he's gonna go through these 30 days and come back with a surprise, safely, satisfied and full of stories to share!! ♥
2011年11月23日水曜日
幾米的童話城堡 (I)
一樣的眼睛，有不一樣的看法。
一樣的耳朵，有不一樣的聽法。
一樣的嘴巴，有不一樣的說法。
一樣的心 ，有不一樣的想法。
是不是因為這樣，
一樣的人生才有不一樣的哀愁...
幾米
2011年11月22日火曜日
那些年，我们一起追的女孩
看了这部电影后,年少时的画面一个接一个地浮现.仿佛就是昨天似的.那回忆还那么的深刻,珍贵.
「每一个成长的回忆,都有一位小胖..」 这我非常的赞成.而那小胖(撇开本人不提)就是我们的昌哥,我的"干弟".就我俩的故事,就是一个幼稚和开心的.还记得我俩从对彼此都看不顺眼彼此,因为爱情"纠纷",因为争"高材生"的排行榜,到有什么就说什么的好朋友.这段和他的故事,我想就够我写一本书了.
更不用提的是「那些年」在我生命中的两位"恋人".所谓的"恋"指的是我暗恋的人.
回想起和他们经历的事和当时的感觉.嗯,感觉还是单纯,甜美的.虽然伤感,痛苦的时刻曾发生过,但那何尝不是一件好事?人生中,不就是要尽情的享受种种事与情务吗?开心,知足的是,他们仅成为了我生命中不可缺少的人.没有人比他更了解我.没有人比他更与我和排.没有人能取代他们..是他们,让我过得像「那些年」一样的小孩子气,直到现在.他们简直是宠坏我了!:)
当然,「那些年」的故事不只环绕着"他"们.还有一个"她"在我的「那些年」印上美丽的脚印.和她简直是一起长大.像我的家人一样,每年年初不可缺少的"团圆"成员之一.和她,就是那么的简单.从小到大,最开心和她的时光就是随随便便在一个不许花钱的地方,在众人面前谈上个大半天.
真得很安慰,我有这么一个美好的「那些年」.
而「那些年」已成为了「这些年」....
「每一个成长的回忆,都有一位小胖..」 这我非常的赞成.而那小胖(撇开本人不提)就是我们的昌哥,我的"干弟".就我俩的故事,就是一个幼稚和开心的.还记得我俩从对彼此都看不顺眼彼此,因为爱情"纠纷",因为争"高材生"的排行榜,到有什么就说什么的好朋友.这段和他的故事,我想就够我写一本书了.
更不用提的是「那些年」在我生命中的两位"恋人".所谓的"恋"指的是我暗恋的人.
回想起和他们经历的事和当时的感觉.嗯,感觉还是单纯,甜美的.虽然伤感,痛苦的时刻曾发生过,但那何尝不是一件好事?人生中,不就是要尽情的享受种种事与情务吗?开心,知足的是,他们仅成为了我生命中不可缺少的人.没有人比他更了解我.没有人比他更与我和排.没有人能取代他们..是他们,让我过得像「那些年」一样的小孩子气,直到现在.他们简直是宠坏我了!:)
当然,「那些年」的故事不只环绕着"他"们.还有一个"她"在我的「那些年」印上美丽的脚印.和她简直是一起长大.像我的家人一样,每年年初不可缺少的"团圆"成员之一.和她,就是那么的简单.从小到大,最开心和她的时光就是随随便便在一个不许花钱的地方,在众人面前谈上个大半天.
真得很安慰,我有这么一个美好的「那些年」.
而「那些年」已成为了「这些年」....
2011年11月18日金曜日
Some thoughts...
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"Why blog still at this age?" This was a casual statement that my friend made, with a mindset that blogging is something that a person of our age won't do. Well, so it's the same as to "why club at this age?". I don't mean rude to not reply over a statement made with different perceptions. After all, we're mature enough to know what we enjoy and the thing about 'following blindly'.
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Seems like the topic around me lately is "Wedding". Yes yes, when am I going to have a wedding of my own? Nah~ If I can only be the one making the decision, I will say "no" to wedding dinner, customs and everything. It's too much a hassle for all the preparations. Just a simple ROM (it's a must what~) and probably if need be, a simple meal with some close friends and my family. Yes, just like my Sis's. But first of all, let me enjoy the dating and loving process first. :x
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Time flies, it's been over a year since I left my "home" in Tanjong Pagar. Everytime I pass-by PSA and saw the PIL containers there, I will tell my colleagues about my "home". They must be feeling my happiness and misses when I told them "I'm on leave tomorrow and I'm visiting my home!!". The feeling is so nice and warm when people that marked their footprints in your life welcome you with a warm hug and genuine smile every time you visit. =) I love and miss dearly all my friends, Godpas & Godmas! It's great to be talking to them without any awkwardness after so long and gosh, I can't believe I'm already thinking about planning my next visit back there!
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I love art and crafts shopping. It always gives me idea for my next artcraft.
Christmas is nearing once again and it's Christmas shopping and DIY period!! Yay! I'm looking forward to the annual PIL Christmas Exchange and I'm proud to say that the organiser this year is Ms Toby He!! Can't believe this is the 4th Christmas Exchange and the oldies are still staying in full-force! Looking forward to celebrating the occassion with Ah Bui, Alice, Baby, Mezzo Melz and Toby He!! and.... I already got an idea......... (to be revealed in 13th Dec 2011).
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"Why blog still at this age?" This was a casual statement that my friend made, with a mindset that blogging is something that a person of our age won't do. Well, so it's the same as to "why club at this age?". I don't mean rude to not reply over a statement made with different perceptions. After all, we're mature enough to know what we enjoy and the thing about 'following blindly'.
==============
Seems like the topic around me lately is "Wedding". Yes yes, when am I going to have a wedding of my own? Nah~ If I can only be the one making the decision, I will say "no" to wedding dinner, customs and everything. It's too much a hassle for all the preparations. Just a simple ROM (it's a must what~) and probably if need be, a simple meal with some close friends and my family. Yes, just like my Sis's. But first of all, let me enjoy the dating and loving process first. :x
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Time flies, it's been over a year since I left my "home" in Tanjong Pagar. Everytime I pass-by PSA and saw the PIL containers there, I will tell my colleagues about my "home". They must be feeling my happiness and misses when I told them "I'm on leave tomorrow and I'm visiting my home!!". The feeling is so nice and warm when people that marked their footprints in your life welcome you with a warm hug and genuine smile every time you visit. =) I love and miss dearly all my friends, Godpas & Godmas! It's great to be talking to them without any awkwardness after so long and gosh, I can't believe I'm already thinking about planning my next visit back there!
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I love art and crafts shopping. It always gives me idea for my next artcraft.
Christmas is nearing once again and it's Christmas shopping and DIY period!! Yay! I'm looking forward to the annual PIL Christmas Exchange and I'm proud to say that the organiser this year is Ms Toby He!! Can't believe this is the 4th Christmas Exchange and the oldies are still staying in full-force! Looking forward to celebrating the occassion with Ah Bui, Alice, Baby, Mezzo Melz and Toby He!! and.... I already got an idea......... (to be revealed in 13th Dec 2011).
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2011年11月1日火曜日
Life goes on...
No matter how much you
got pissed and frustrated over a MCP consultant;
dislike some colleagues that just can't seem to have a clear mind;
dread wrecking your brain for some improvisation of the system;
hate to work overtime and bringing stuff home to work on;
sometimes get irritated over the notification sounds from watsapp;
just want to snooze on the cozy bed, under the cooling weather the whole day but you're being nagged to do something;
misses that someone but have to control your fingers from pressing the number pad;
unknowingly smile to yourself over some "irritating" yet sweet messages;
laughed out real loud reading the email conversations;
got shocked and laughed at your stupidity over a hopping spider;
get all high and cranky over "shit rearing stimulator" apps;
Life goes on.
After all.... "they are all the unbalanced emotions having a fun time, playing.".
=)
got pissed and frustrated over a MCP consultant;
dislike some colleagues that just can't seem to have a clear mind;
dread wrecking your brain for some improvisation of the system;
hate to work overtime and bringing stuff home to work on;
sometimes get irritated over the notification sounds from watsapp;
just want to snooze on the cozy bed, under the cooling weather the whole day but you're being nagged to do something;
misses that someone but have to control your fingers from pressing the number pad;
unknowingly smile to yourself over some "irritating" yet sweet messages;
laughed out real loud reading the email conversations;
got shocked and laughed at your stupidity over a hopping spider;
get all high and cranky over "shit rearing stimulator" apps;
Life goes on.
After all.... "they are all the unbalanced emotions having a fun time, playing.".
=)
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