Hehehe.. got nothing to do.. came across this quiz and its kinda speak the way i see love.. haha..
♥ Personality of the person you would be attracted to in real life situation...
In a real life situation you would be attracted to a person who is cold as ice on the outside, but warm inside. -- Hmmm...
♥ The behavior that would cause you to break up with your partner...
Your partner is too emotional and moody and you don't know how to please him/her. -- Oooo...
♥ Kind of relationship that you would like to build with your partner...
You want a relationship that makes you feel warm and always in love. -- Of course~!
♥ Your views about marriage...
You are afraid of marriage, you think it would take away your freedom. -- BINGO~!
♥ Your views about love at this present moment...
You always thirst for love, you can do anything for it, but you won't fall for it easily. -- Maybe?
2008年6月29日日曜日
2008年6月25日水曜日
Women. Smart yet stupid?
Read one of Lili's entry where she quoted....
"I don't understand why people can promise something or say something if they never mean to do it? Why can't you just not give someone else false hopes and shut up? At least that will make them feel better?"..............
"Men often lie and even though women know that they are lying, they still choose to give them the benefit of doubt. Women are SMART yet STUPID in this case. Smart because they know the guy is lying. Stupid because they still choose to believe the guy who's lying."...........
In my opinion.....
Sometimes, promising somebody might be an assurance to him/her. May the assurance be now or forever, its still an assurance and this might make them feel good at least in that moment.
People always think of what will happen now than what will happen in the future. They never think of the consequences. Just like giving promises. Men often lie because women think a lot. Because of this, their lies might be to prevent another heartbreaking and hurting quarrel?
Women are sensitive creatures. Women likewise, choosing to believe in men's lies might be to prevent them from getting depressed over the issue?
There's a saying "the more you quarrel, the more loving's the couple".
It might be true. But it might be incorrect too.
Many relationship ended because of constant quarrels/disagreements. And to put it in nicer word will be 'incompatible'.
Women might be smart to know that men are lying and they might be stupid on the surface to believe in their lies. Maybe.... that is because of this stupidity that help sustain the relationship? Hahaha...
Compromise is the word for building up a peaceful relationship. That is what i believe.
"I don't understand why people can promise something or say something if they never mean to do it? Why can't you just not give someone else false hopes and shut up? At least that will make them feel better?"..............
"Men often lie and even though women know that they are lying, they still choose to give them the benefit of doubt. Women are SMART yet STUPID in this case. Smart because they know the guy is lying. Stupid because they still choose to believe the guy who's lying."...........
In my opinion.....
Sometimes, promising somebody might be an assurance to him/her. May the assurance be now or forever, its still an assurance and this might make them feel good at least in that moment.
People always think of what will happen now than what will happen in the future. They never think of the consequences. Just like giving promises. Men often lie because women think a lot. Because of this, their lies might be to prevent another heartbreaking and hurting quarrel?
Women are sensitive creatures. Women likewise, choosing to believe in men's lies might be to prevent them from getting depressed over the issue?
There's a saying "the more you quarrel, the more loving's the couple".
It might be true. But it might be incorrect too.
Many relationship ended because of constant quarrels/disagreements. And to put it in nicer word will be 'incompatible'.
Women might be smart to know that men are lying and they might be stupid on the surface to believe in their lies. Maybe.... that is because of this stupidity that help sustain the relationship? Hahaha...
Compromise is the word for building up a peaceful relationship. That is what i believe.
Nice Gathering
Havent been meeting up with the guys (Jun Wei, Tong, Ben & JY) since i think Janice's 21st Birthday? Haha! Whoa.. that's like almost 2yrs? Lol..
Meeting up with them really make me feel that we've grown up. From the playful ignorance days to now where everybody is settling down to their future career path. Jun wei's seriously matured to one who's finally concern with his academic (flying over to AU for studies) and Tong's seriously in to his future career as a financial adviser, reading up on financial issues even before his semesters start in NUS. Ben? Haha.. indescribable comments.
Seeing everyone with a path in mind, i suddenly feel kinda depressed. Not yet a stable job after graduation made me feel kinda useless and hopeless? Haha.. Why do i see everybody getting a job so quickly after grad and im still stucked here aimlessly? Im very unsure of my career path. Aiming for a job i like or aiming for a job that's relevant to my degree?
Initially i was very sure that i will go for a job that interests me. But now, after what my father and friends have said, "working for one that's relevant to my degree, whether you like it or not, gaining experience while you are still fresh is the priority. Years down the road, you can still go for your dream job", i begin to have second thoughts.
Some even say "follow your heart"... How am i going to follow my heart when im not even sure of my heart? Hahaha.....
Meeting up with them really make me feel that we've grown up. From the playful ignorance days to now where everybody is settling down to their future career path. Jun wei's seriously matured to one who's finally concern with his academic (flying over to AU for studies) and Tong's seriously in to his future career as a financial adviser, reading up on financial issues even before his semesters start in NUS. Ben? Haha.. indescribable comments.
Seeing everyone with a path in mind, i suddenly feel kinda depressed. Not yet a stable job after graduation made me feel kinda useless and hopeless? Haha.. Why do i see everybody getting a job so quickly after grad and im still stucked here aimlessly? Im very unsure of my career path. Aiming for a job i like or aiming for a job that's relevant to my degree?
Initially i was very sure that i will go for a job that interests me. But now, after what my father and friends have said, "working for one that's relevant to my degree, whether you like it or not, gaining experience while you are still fresh is the priority. Years down the road, you can still go for your dream job", i begin to have second thoughts.
Some even say "follow your heart"... How am i going to follow my heart when im not even sure of my heart? Hahaha.....
2008年6月22日日曜日
Guilty Guilty
Ben Dan is finally SICK!I didnt mean to disturb you so early..
I didnt knew you were sick...
Rest well...
Stay Alive.
2008年6月21日土曜日
A Day Out...
First of all... I wanna say HAPPY 30th BIRTHDAY to BIL~!! (P.S. I haven got ya pressie.. lol.. was too busy in my working and social life la.. Bu yao ji jiao ah.. Will give u a belated one hopefully by end of the month? Lol..)
Had a long night walking up and down orchard road. Me and Lionel walked up and down the road about a total of 4x? Whaha.. we walked before meeting Bang and Janice. Lol.. Ok.. So finally Bang came!!! Whee!! Yesh... we're more at ease. Lol.. Bought tics to "You dont mess with the Zohan". Another funny comedy i've watched since Harold and Kumar. Lol!!! Not as crude as Harold and there's meaning to the movie - Catch hold of your dreams while you can. Dont give up!
Next... I am sooo soo tired! Was out the whole day yesterday.. Meeting different gang of friends (Janice & Ham.. Ham, Rikesh & Chris.. Janice, Lionel and Zhi Bang). Hahaha.. Was very looking forward for the night gathering with Janice, Lionel and Zhi Bang. Why? Coz it's the first gathering where 4 of us are out together! Lol.. We had organised several gatherings in the past, but Bang's always not around due to last min incidents. So we are finally full-forced! The initial taipei trip gang. Lol..
Guess coz Bang usually didnt turn up the very last min, Lionel and me still got the uneasy feel when we 2 met first at Plaza Sing (Miscommunication, Lionel's at Cathay when im at Plaza Sing.. =.=). Whahaha.. We dare not hope so much, not even dare to buy our movie tics 1st until Bang showed up. Lol..
Had a long night walking up and down orchard road. Me and Lionel walked up and down the road about a total of 4x? Whaha.. we walked before meeting Bang and Janice. Lol.. Ok.. So finally Bang came!!! Whee!! Yesh... we're more at ease. Lol.. Bought tics to "You dont mess with the Zohan". Another funny comedy i've watched since Harold and Kumar. Lol!!! Not as crude as Harold and there's meaning to the movie - Catch hold of your dreams while you can. Dont give up! Lastly... some impression on the guys and girl after our gathering...
Lionel - Nice, helpful and caring guy. One who catch hold of the appreciation he deserves and one who appreciate others reasonably. One who spend on things he think is worthwhile spending. A man of principles i would say. A very independent man and one whom you can depend on.
Bang - One who tries everything, know what is right and wrong. A guy who appreciate others who are good to him. An observant friend in the long term. One who listens and give good advice. Musically talented. Independent too and a nice friend too.
Janice - Wat's more to say? Lol.. My forever twins and her substitute dear. Lol.. *vomit*. =X
2008年6月19日木曜日
Office skiving
Whooo... Im blogging at work! This has been quite a busy week for me and i think the whole floor? Moving their things around, walking around the floor looking for drawers with keys, re-arranging their belongs, setting up the PCs etc. It has been a busy yet enjoyable week!
Environment in Gateway is not bad. Can actually save quite a lot compared to the days in Millenia office. Reason? Gateway is quite a distance away from the shopping malls like Suntec and Bugis, but there's great and cheap food along the road. Can save approx $1 for a meal as compared to food court prices.
One thing that i not quite like about it is i have no direct bus! No more sleeping on buses in the morning! (><) I am resorting to the only transport that i can make use of - MRT. And i hate taking trains especially in the morning where my face practically stick against the door of the trains!
About the interior of the office... well, its still not bad, using our access cards in and out from one wing to another wing. Hahaha.. remind me of my audit days where we have to use access cards wherever we go. My seating place is good. Feng Shui's good (according to the feng shui master), with a pillar blocking my black fortunes. Hahaha... Wat's more important is i have lotsa privacy in my current place. All thanks to the big round pillar again. Lol!! Block away all the view of peeping toms. Lol!!!
Ok.. I gtg back SIM for some Tax Guide for Janice! Whahaha!! End of work~!! Ciaoz~!
Environment in Gateway is not bad. Can actually save quite a lot compared to the days in Millenia office. Reason? Gateway is quite a distance away from the shopping malls like Suntec and Bugis, but there's great and cheap food along the road. Can save approx $1 for a meal as compared to food court prices.
One thing that i not quite like about it is i have no direct bus! No more sleeping on buses in the morning! (><) I am resorting to the only transport that i can make use of - MRT. And i hate taking trains especially in the morning where my face practically stick against the door of the trains!
About the interior of the office... well, its still not bad, using our access cards in and out from one wing to another wing. Hahaha.. remind me of my audit days where we have to use access cards wherever we go. My seating place is good. Feng Shui's good (according to the feng shui master), with a pillar blocking my black fortunes. Hahaha... Wat's more important is i have lotsa privacy in my current place. All thanks to the big round pillar again. Lol!! Block away all the view of peeping toms. Lol!!!
Ok.. I gtg back SIM for some Tax Guide for Janice! Whahaha!! End of work~!! Ciaoz~!
2008年6月11日水曜日
Dim Sum!!
Im FULL.. BLOATED..
From Tyres to Hot Air Balloon...
From Tyres to Hot Air Balloon...
I LOVE Buffets~!
Sushi Buffets.. Dim Sum Buffets.. International Buffets..
You name it.. I eat it..
Today's Tag... DIM SUM BUFFET..
You wan ha gao? YES! You wan siew mai? YES!
You wan this? you wan that? YES YES YES!
1 hour later... (^o^);
2008年6月10日火曜日
Bye aunties~
Juz reached home.. Wind was blowing strongly.. Looking outside the window while waiting for my turn to bath, it rained suddenly..
Images of the pantry aunties in FDI appeared. Their motherly laughter.. Their stories about their family and children... So warm and sweet.
My first day in FDI.. one of the pantry auntie treated me chestnut biscuit without even knowing me. Days later, we chatted about our age, family members etc. Months later.. another pantry auntie joined her in FDI's office. They are such good friends! Joking, gossiping, having fun working together.
I've so so so enjoyed the days with these aunties. Thou i cant remember their names clearly (im bad in names), i will never forget their laughter and stories.
Days later... We will be moving to the new office at Gateway... Might not have any chance to meet these 2 bubbly aunties in future. Take care aunties...
Images of the pantry aunties in FDI appeared. Their motherly laughter.. Their stories about their family and children... So warm and sweet.
My first day in FDI.. one of the pantry auntie treated me chestnut biscuit without even knowing me. Days later, we chatted about our age, family members etc. Months later.. another pantry auntie joined her in FDI's office. They are such good friends! Joking, gossiping, having fun working together.
I've so so so enjoyed the days with these aunties. Thou i cant remember their names clearly (im bad in names), i will never forget their laughter and stories.
Days later... We will be moving to the new office at Gateway... Might not have any chance to meet these 2 bubbly aunties in future. Take care aunties...
2008年6月4日水曜日
爱情迟钝症
有些女孩，明知男孩子想追求她，也明知他不是她那杯茶，却偏偏不会拒绝他。男孩子约她，她爽快答应，其间的消费，她没想过要付；他送她礼物，她欣然接受。假如你迟疑她的动机，她会理直气壮地对你说：“异性也可以做朋友啊，我有空，他约我，为何要推掉？还有，男人请女人吃饭、娱乐、送女人礼物，这叫做男人风度，我是尊重他才接受呀，难道就代表我在误导他？你别这样小家好吗？”
约会过几次后，加入男孩进一步向她暗示，只要还未直接说出“爱”字，她会乐意continue装傻，你指控她态度暧昧吗？她一脸无知。“他是在向我暗示吗？我完全不知道呀，我对这回事一向比较迟钝，他真的再向我暗示吗？哎哟，那怎么办？”
好了，当男孩子终于鼓起勇气向她求爱，她也非回不可了，然而，她们的答案总是带点含糊，带点延续性。“你是个好男人，maybe....不，我暂时不想拍拖...还是做朋友比较长久。”
爱情迟钝病患者当然也可以是男孩，因为女孩大多不会向男孩求爱，所以暧昧关系拖得更长，男孩把仰慕她的女孩玩弄得团团转，更加可耻。
约会过几次后，加入男孩进一步向她暗示，只要还未直接说出“爱”字，她会乐意continue装傻，你指控她态度暧昧吗？她一脸无知。“他是在向我暗示吗？我完全不知道呀，我对这回事一向比较迟钝，他真的再向我暗示吗？哎哟，那怎么办？”
好了，当男孩子终于鼓起勇气向她求爱，她也非回不可了，然而，她们的答案总是带点含糊，带点延续性。“你是个好男人，maybe....不，我暂时不想拍拖...还是做朋友比较长久。”
爱情迟钝病患者当然也可以是男孩，因为女孩大多不会向男孩求爱，所以暧昧关系拖得更长，男孩把仰慕她的女孩玩弄得团团转，更加可耻。
2008年6月3日火曜日
Pets~!!
Went to a pet shop at Suntec (the one where ham brought me to before).. Judy bought 2 lovely hamsters (age 2~3 mths) in replacement of the one which died yesterday morning. Played with them in the shop and even back in office. So cute~!! Went back to the shop today again.. this time Joane's buying the hamsters..
They're simply so adorable and irresistable to play with!! The above pic is the poor "abandoned" hammy after Judy brought 2 of her friends home. She looked so sad and lonely when we visited her today. Tried grabbing her up to play, but she had a great fall instead coz Joane did not grasp hold of it when it started struggling.
Played with some of the rabbits too. Its super cute~~!! If only i can have a pet... Haiz...
Had real lots of fun with them. Made me look kinda stupid smiling at the pets.. Hahaha!! Now i know why ham said i look like a little kid then. Lol~!
They're simply so adorable and irresistable to play with!! The above pic is the poor "abandoned" hammy after Judy brought 2 of her friends home. She looked so sad and lonely when we visited her today. Tried grabbing her up to play, but she had a great fall instead coz Joane did not grasp hold of it when it started struggling.
Played with some of the rabbits too. Its super cute~~!! If only i can have a pet... Haiz...
Had real lots of fun with them. Made me look kinda stupid smiling at the pets.. Hahaha!! Now i know why ham said i look like a little kid then. Lol~!
2008年6月2日月曜日
2008年6月1日日曜日
Rest In Peace
Got the CD compilation of our Taipei trip from Jan. Was very curious about what she meant be "additional stuff from Lionel". I guessed it should be pics about his army life blah blah blah. Bingo! Im right! But i didnt knew there's gonna be pics that kinda grossed me out ----- Pics of them skinning and cuting a rabbit. A poor white innoccent jumpy rabbit.
I almost PUKED apart from the heavy dinner i had in celebration of Ah Bui's birthday. P.S. Happy Birthday Ah Bui~! Ben Dan said sometimes they are forced to do things in the army for e.g. killing innoccent animals to survive in the outfield. Haiz... Lionel told me that the rabbit's from Brunei, during his one-day survivor camp. Well, he ate the rabbit eventually (he claimed: You dont eat you suffer) =.= But at least he did got emotional after the whole exercise. *You're forgiven*.. Lol..
I guessed Ben Dan's right for saying words like "比不得已”in army. And Lionel even told me the moral of the exercise was to tell them to appreciate food. =.= Gosh.. Im sooo lucky that there's no need for me to serve the army. I'll rather suffer than eat this poor rabbit, or do these kind of cruel acts.
The day after (yesterday), i stepped onto a DEAD RAT on my way to the busstop. GROSSED! I can feel the damp, sticky, fury, soft body of the rat under my feet!!! Lucky there wasnt any blood or sticky juice oozing and splashing out of the rat when i gave it another big impact. =p
Saw a crow immediately came eating the dead rat, pulling it to one side near the drain, tearing its meat in small bits. Another crow came shouting out to the other crows as if it was telling them "come come.. i've got food!". And not long later, flocks of crows came flocking down beside the small portion of meat left behind by the 1st crow. Whoa.. I feel like im watching live on discovery channel!
It rained minutes later, guess the rat must be a kind one in its past. God must be crying for its death, its their year afterall. So sorry poor rat, i didnt mean to give you another "huge" impact after your "mysterious" death. Im not the killer........
I almost PUKED apart from the heavy dinner i had in celebration of Ah Bui's birthday. P.S. Happy Birthday Ah Bui~! Ben Dan said sometimes they are forced to do things in the army for e.g. killing innoccent animals to survive in the outfield. Haiz... Lionel told me that the rabbit's from Brunei, during his one-day survivor camp. Well, he ate the rabbit eventually (he claimed: You dont eat you suffer) =.= But at least he did got emotional after the whole exercise. *You're forgiven*.. Lol..
I guessed Ben Dan's right for saying words like "比不得已”in army. And Lionel even told me the moral of the exercise was to tell them to appreciate food. =.= Gosh.. Im sooo lucky that there's no need for me to serve the army. I'll rather suffer than eat this poor rabbit, or do these kind of cruel acts.
The day after (yesterday), i stepped onto a DEAD RAT on my way to the busstop. GROSSED! I can feel the damp, sticky, fury, soft body of the rat under my feet!!! Lucky there wasnt any blood or sticky juice oozing and splashing out of the rat when i gave it another big impact. =p
Saw a crow immediately came eating the dead rat, pulling it to one side near the drain, tearing its meat in small bits. Another crow came shouting out to the other crows as if it was telling them "come come.. i've got food!". And not long later, flocks of crows came flocking down beside the small portion of meat left behind by the 1st crow. Whoa.. I feel like im watching live on discovery channel!
It rained minutes later, guess the rat must be a kind one in its past. God must be crying for its death, its their year afterall. So sorry poor rat, i didnt mean to give you another "huge" impact after your "mysterious" death. Im not the killer........
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